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Most of us know, happy people, who seem to lived a Charmed Life. You can not even those that seem intelligent, yet almost stumbling in good situations. Opportunity to open for them things are "delivered" to them. Maybe you win on the stock exchange, where a dream job, or their spouses to marry ideal.
Then there are the unlucky ones. Maybe you know some of them. Some of them are also very intelligent and educated, yet they are unhappyin love, losing money losing investment opportunities and have unexpected bad things happen.
Maybe somewhere between these two extremes. You're lucky and you have your share of "bad luck" too. But have you ever tried to learn how people of the lucky ones?
There are basically two approaches, the idea of happiness. Some think it's something random or mysterious that we have no control, while others say it does not exist, that what we call luckto explain the hard work, or lazy, cause and effect. But we all see that some people have easy success, whether we call it luck or not. What both approaches tend to miss the obvious question is one of the "How can this be" happy people?
The answer to that starts with the right to avoid these errors. Stop arguing about definitions. It has to happen to make good things more profitable. It is really important if you deserve the title of "happiness, even if you feel "Luck" had nothing to do with it? The bottom line is that the good results good results, whatever they are called, are accessible.
One thing Lucky People do differently
There are many things that lucky people do differently, and there is a serious research that proves it. It 'been shown that people who smile more often identified with happiness, for example. And among those who are superstitious (absolutely unnecessary for happiness), research shows> Happy people have more positive beliefs, such as crossing your fingers, while those who have to avoid cats and thirteen blacks fear the number so lucky.
Of all the things a happy person in another way, but one of the most effective may require something simple. How many of us do not always ask for a better looking table at a restaurant or ask for a raise at work. This does not guarantee anything, but certainly ask more likely to get. It 's safe to say thatYou get more shots and nice tables in life if you ask.
For example, in his book "Screw It - Let's Do It", Richard Branson tells the story of how he bought a $ 3 million pounds per island $ 180,000. This is only 7% of the price, among others. Here's the short version, as he did: He asked. I guess there were those who liked the island twice what he paid, because this would have a reduction of 86% would be obtained. But you probably have never made the offer to ask embarrassingfor such a low price.
As a young man I bought my first house by advertising. I said a little 'ad in the newspaper, I was looking for a small house with a small down payment and seller financing. I received a call and just bought my first house. Ask and you shall receive, as the saying goes.
So there are people happy? Yes, if you're one of them, the following three premises:
First "lucky" are those people who are happy surprises, good andSituations in their lives.
2. Your happiness is the result of their way of thinking and acting.
3. You can be one of them through learning and application of certain principles (as above).
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