Sunday, December 26, 2010

Lucky people wisely choose their beliefs


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We all have beliefs, but it is fortunate that among us we see the choice on what to believe.

Our survival depends on the belief that we use to interpret our existence and interaction with the environment. Most of us learn from, I think that will protect us from harm physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually adopt. On the basis of the survival mechanism, that warns us to avoid pain and gain pleasure, we tend to beliefs that we hold the pain in sight and weEmbrace beliefs that give us joy.

Can you remember the first hypothesis that is articulated in your life? It 'was probably a little after ideas about the world they are to formulate itself as a small child began. Beliefs are ideas from the evidence that supports their validity. This evidence, your personal experience or the experience of people that you trust (either because you love them or because they are credible authorities). Thus, our childhood beliefsshaped by our family, friends, teachers, and the information we absorb from our environment. In adulthood, our beliefs are our interpretation of complex information we receive in the form of interaction and communication with our environment. We determine our own rules, believe it or not. For example, lawyers have much more evidence of faith, as a seer, to support dependency intuition. If you consider your most important beliefs, beliefs that support yourExistence and survival, what evidence do you have to defend those beliefs? Their proof is based on personal experience, the impact of training received, your intuition, your faith? There are more expensive than the ideas that have not the slightest evidence to support?

Lucky people often express beliefs that have no evidence to support it. There are countless stories of people who miraculously survived the circumstances, incredible. They lived aextraordinary reality, a reality without any evidence or logical rationale to support. For example, a child goes to university, although not a single member of their family who can read and dream. Although the available evidence, that their goal is not possible, stick to their convictions, supported only by their faith in intangible assets. The conviction gives them pleasure loved animals, allowing them to overcome the painful obstacles to achieving the objectivethey believed in, despite the odds.

Whatever we think we can always find the evidence that we or those we love and respect, are correct. popular writers such as Robbins (1992) have extensive research on this phenomenon that psychologists claim as "self-fulfilling prophecy. Wiseman (2004) has also situations, the results of published research suggests that if we are lucky, we support, on the other hand, if we believewe are unlucky, we interpret events to highlight all that is negative, confirming the correctness of our decision.

Our beliefs influence our behavior, our emotions and our sense of well being in general. If we believe that life is too dangerous, we will act pessimistic, with our actions guided by fear. If we believe that we are happy to be happy and easy smiles appear on our face, and a recovery in our heels and our vitality, which stimulatesLove of life. The response we received to our way of interaction provides strong evidence that we are very happy. And the cycle continues.

With the knowledge, beliefs are only representations of the truth, not the absolute truth, happiness, people are not rigidly determined to protect their beliefs. They are more committed to their beliefs, rather than promote the values. If faith does not lead to develop what the value in life, to closeas a series of inaccurate statements that were not taken into consideration the desired destination. For example, a person of very strong traditional family values to keep her family together, or through the development of different beliefs to adjust to the lifestyle of their younger generation. In addition, to create happy people as a new faith to strengthen their family relationships, his life full of priceless values. In contrast, unhappy people lose the closeness ofFamily members hang their miserable heartless, ungrateful beliefs, expected life constantly, that they supported the current hypocrisy.

What beliefs are steering your life?

Which of your beliefs, your goal in life?

Which of your beliefs are false, outdated or disempowerment for you?

How many times you have to live life with an expectation of extraordinary happiness that is beyond belief?

References

Robbins, A.(1992) Awaken the Giant Within, Free Press

Wiseman, R. (2004) of the luck factor, arrow (edge)

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