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lucky have the ability to turn their misfortune into fortune.
There are obstacles and disappointments in our lives. His happiness does not mean that you are deleting all about. It has to do with the way we look at them. Dr. Richard Wiseman, author of the factor of luck, found some similarities in the three lucky manage difficult times. You:
Before you can always the bright side of life "like the song beats Monty Python. Evenif things do not go as planned, people can experience happiness, find something positive about. This is often thought of as the results could have been worse. Although this may seem a gloomy vision, is also a perspective that can lead to a situation.
According to decide that every step will end up working for the best. Because they have seen positive results come from a seemingly negative result, the certainty that something good willcome from this.
Third Do not dwell on their misfortune. Lucky people can not be overwhelmed by negative results. Focusing their minds positively, are less stressed and ready for future opportunities.
Fourth Work to prevent future misfortune. You must accept not only the refusal or failure to analyze why it happened and take steps to prevent recurrence.
"Every disaster will meet in it the germgood luck tomorrow. "
Og Mandino
Activities for children to try with your
Lemon soda
In his blog Raising Happy, Christine Carter talks about this game to play with their children. Start by launching an event that seems negative. Ask your child through something positive identification that are used by it to respond. For example: "You will see baseball game rained out." "We could stay home and make chocolate chip cookies!" Take your childTake the events and turning lemons into lemonade.
Behavior change
Although it is not under our control, we can control others with actions and reactions. As children have a problem or a conflict, asking them to determine how to adjust their behavior to avoid this situation in future. As a follow-up, remind them of their idea, the next time they enter into a similar situation.
Do not Dwell
Although it is healthy, the feelings can be seen, notuseful to wallow in self pity. Help your child to take measures to feel better. Take a fun movie together or go out for a walk. If your child is worried or has a problem, help with a small immediate action to improve the situation they now feel justified.
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