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Victim mentality. Do you have it? Not sure? Then let me give you a few simple questions.
Reunions say or think, one or all of these things regularly:
"It's not my fault!""I did not have the time or do not have time!"
"I am not a happy man."
"I never get what he deserves.
You see, if you're prone to say these things, or even think about it, then you can get put in the role of the victim. This is the language, have aVictims used. Victim who tries to do is to blame. Pale, blame themselves, but everyone. A person who is not the language to learn from its experiences.
Ask yourself the following:
Why is not your fault?Why not have the time, or because you have not had the time?
Why are not you happy?
Why not always get what you deserve?
I tell you why. There is a very simple answer to all these diseases. You probably do not like. InIn fact, I know you like it. But here it is:
Do not want to take responsibility for the results. It is much easier to shift the blame.
"Responsibility is the price of greatness." Winston Churchill said. Can you imagine what kind of position would be in England during the Second World War, when Churchill had not stepped up? What if he, "Oh, this stuff. I'm just a quiet place in the country where I can go and smoke a cigar and drink my scotch, until he decided to findjust terrible blows on the disorder. Someone else to fill the breach. I'm out of here. "So many people think so.
Anyone who has ever achieved something has assumed responsibility for the result. Hey, you can not win, for the first time or the second or third or even tenth time. They could not even win the fiftieth time! Not Colonel Sanders. Neither Thomas Edison. But today we can all eat Kentucky Fried Chicken in an electric light (if you want).
The point is - every timeYou fail, you learn what does not. What does this can be done? It allows you to reload and reorganize, then move in the opposite direction. Only a fool believes that the same thing over and over again expecting a different result. This formula has never worked and never work. But this is to do what the victims.
I am assuming that you do not believe, do yourself a fool. But could succumb to sabotage the victim mentality.
Life will always give you lessons. If youfailed to learn these lessons will keep repeating it's life. A winner learns from experience. A victim refuses to learn, keeping the same things and still get the same result.
If you always make excuses for himself instead of trying to find solutions and you always assume the role of the victim.
A victim mentality can be overcome. Keep trying. This is all you need. Finding better ways of doing things. Learn. The victim mentality, you can turn left into the master mentality. All you need iswillingness to learn and some discipline to keep trying.
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